What are the chances of an ex coming back if they left you for someone else?

Well, ex's have tried coming back to me. Im sorry but when an ex tries to get back with me...I am offended. I am nobody's second best. Love yourself a little bit more, demand to be number one. Your ex telling you he loved you prior to him leaving you for someone else is just Bizarr. My guess is that he was just keeping you on the sidelines in case the new relationship didn't work out. You sound like you want your ex to come back. There are cases where ex's do come back....many, in fact. But I can only speak for myself, I couldn't have any ex back. Once they did that to me, that would be it. Don't be anyone's second fiddle. Obviously while you were together he was looking for someone else. You dont just find someone if you're not looking. You dont just find someone if you are happy in your relationship. Say if he came back, would you ever trust him again? Would you be wondering if he is looking somewhere else again? The hard facts are, he wasnt happy in the relationship with you hence him finding someone else. AND he is liable to do it again. I hope for your sake he doesnt come back to you because you are better off without him.